No affair, no feelings...is there hope?

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This is my plan. Like I said, she doesn't seem to have thought it through very well and I'm taking this as a positive from a "hope" standpoint. I have an idea of what I will do if she does start pushing and I leave and I am preparing in case, but hoping it doesn't get that far.

So, about the bed situation. She came in the room tonight to plug her stuff in and briefly checked her pillow for dog hair (daily struggles lol), I almost thought she was going to get in the bed. She kind of sulked to the closet and I could tell she wasn't too happy about sleeping in the spare room for a third night in a row. I fought the urge to try and accommodate, and she left mumbling she was fine. Two seconds later, she is back saying I don't have to but could I please wash one of her blankets tomorrow because she is cold in there. This is a perfect example of a situation that makes me squirm.

Since we talked today about how I supported the idea of sleeping separately, it feels disingenuine to also want her back in the bed. If she were to decide to come back, even if just for comfort reasons, is that still a win for me? Or only if it comes with an actual change of heart?