have the Counselor say that you guys got ahead of yourselves... that you guys now need to take a step back and discuss the points of reconciliation... that you are hurt, and she needs to do the work to build up your trust in her... and these are the things that will help you, hoosjim, feel comfortable:
BFF Girls Weekends Wine hours and other such things wedding rings and what ever else you may have...
are you brave enough to do this? you should be... you said you were done... is she willing to give these up for the marriage? she should be... she was dying inside...
