It is crazy to think how long I have been on this board.
Less than 8 months, that's not long although I'm sure it seems like FOREVER to you!
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She has not proven to me she wants to leave the OM and pursue a future with me. She is still "stuck" not knowing what shes wants, but she knows she doesn't want to close the book on us yet. Script (am I right?).
Yup, you are exactly right. She is cake-eating, and she'll keep that going for as long as you let it. You need to put a stop to it ASAP. She's not going to come back as long as you let this situation persist.
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I am just still stuck in this limbo, and I told myself once my bday hits this month I would not be able to live like this anymore. I want companionship, someone to share this quick life we have on Earth, someone to go on adventures with, and someone to be happy with - without changing who I am. So...time's up W.
Of course you want that, we all want that. In my case it took ME pushing the D through, after which I met a beautiful young sexy woman that is all of that to me and much more. Sometimes the path to happiness is recon, and sometimes it's moving on. But here's the thing, your path to happiness is not to stay the course and keep the status quo. You are STUCK right now. It's time to get unstuck. So Chris, what does getting "unstuck" look like to you? What are your goals SANS wife and how do you achieve those goals? Work on that and maybe your W will come back. Or maybe you'll find someone else. But you've got to CHANGE what you're doing before either of those opportunities will present themselves.
