lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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AnotherStander, She may have altered her direct deposit so that the joint account is no repelnished with funds to cover the mortgage. I have no issues with the utilities since she is not living there. That is also why I want something for taking care of the horses. I feel she is taking advantage of me at this point. She is free to take off all weekend without a care when it comes to the animals.

Amoafwl, Financial protection is my main motivation right now. I don't want to force the D issue. I would rather it drag for awhile just to see where the A goes, but I can't drag it out too long because of finances also.

I am not really sure if I should even meet with her yet.