J- you gave your son the option and he chose to stay at your place right? How is that petty? She agreed you could have them for Easter and if he is 18 yrs old I assume he is old enough to make his own choices????? When they turn 18 I assume they can come and go as they please between either parents house??
Maybe your intentions were petty but she doesn’t know that and I don’t think you needed to apologize especially since she agreed you could have them.
Let's just say my intentions were petty, and I didn't discouraged him to stay here to hurt her a little. I don't really care how she feels about that, but I guess I'm a little disappointed in myself for not being bigger than that.
That's a funny question about S18 that hasn't really come up, whether he is no longer subject to our custody arrangement, and can come and go as he pleases. In my state he's not emancipated until 18 AND graduated from HS, but if he decided he wanted to stay at one house or the other, I'm not sure what would happen.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17