Jim, I think the timeline is probably the most problematic. If this had happened 7 weeks from now (8 weeks since BD2), then I think the reaction here would be a tad different. But really, Easter was barely over a week since last contact between your W and OM. There are folks here still struggling weeks and months after their S's last contact with the OP.

We all just don't want to see you get hurt here. SO please understand these reactions are coming from a place of caring.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018