What do you think will happen with you and your wife after you divorce?
I really have no clue. We are 100% amicable and at minimum I hope that it continues as we work together for the next 11 years raising our children.
I don't think about a future with us being together but I am not quite sure she is done yet either. She just called me 5 min ago to tell me what her condo appraised for.
Just remember you can only control yourself....you can't force your H to return and you would only want him to return because he loves you and wants to be with you not because your some consolation prize and his first option didn't work out.
