mybest, it may be hard to hear, but yeah, 99.9% (I made that up) of the time, this situation is an affair. It doesn't change how you react, though. You still need to get a life, maintain your integrity, and be the woman he'd be a fool to leave. Affair or no affair, this just makes you more attractive. If he sees that you'll just be there, no matter what, he won't feel the pain of losing you. He has to see what he'd be giving up.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
