It's fun. I've been on dates with 3 different women - only first dates so far.
I've been using online dating. In-person meeting is challenging for an introvert like me. That's not to say I can't do it, and I try to have social outings with guy friends where I have the opportunity to work on my in-person skills with the ladies. It's just that, when you meet someone at a bar, you're meeting someone who goes to bars.
Oddly enough, I saw XW's dating profile on one of the apps I use. Maybe the grass wasn't greener after all.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
One of the things I make a point to do is talk to every one on come into contact with by asking questions. Checkout clerks, people in elevators etc. That way striking up convos with the ladies is not as difficult.
LH, thanks for pointing that out! I do try to socialize more and "talk to strangers"
On the night of St. Patrick's Day, I found myself at a bar in the French Quarter. The place was full of women with beads. I had none. I set myself a goal of getting a pair of beads by the end of the night. Mission accomplished.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
I bet that was a surreal moment. When I think about my W having a dating profile it make me laugh a little bit. Too funny.