She has not mentioned the D papers since last week and I am concerned that this talk will push the D forward. I know she still intends to D me, but I am not sure how this will make me look if I wait for her to address it or I bring it up. Can someone who has been here a while give me some advice.
What should I do about this will it show her that I am pulling away if I initiate the discussion?
Don't initiate it. The only way I would is if you want to be the one to file. Then gauging where she is in the process would help you know if you needed to move forwarded. If that is not your sitch then no good can come to you initiating except to nudge her in moving forward with it.
The only time I initiated D talk with my wife was after I spoke to a lawyer and he suggested I be the one the file. I then talked to my wife and her only movement on it was to look up an online quickie divorce that wouldn't even work in our situation (because we have a child).
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
