lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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I have no plans for the info. we live in a no fault state as far as D is concerned. I also know that knowing this only hurts me and makes it tougher for me to move on. She has moved out of our home and into an apartment, yet she still has belongings in the home.
I planned on addressing that last night along with other financial issues such as boarding fee for horses, that I think she needs to find somewhere else for the trailer and horses, what I am willing to do as far as buyout and when she will remove the rest of her belongings. However she kept texting that she would be later than agreed, so I finally postponed to today. I am thinking about canceling tonight to get this more on my grounds.
She has not mentioned the D papers since last week and I am concerned that this talk will push the D forward. I know she still intends to D me, but I am not sure how this will make me look if I wait for her to address it or I bring it up.
Can someone who has been here a while give me some advice.