I know you are thinking things are going well. I am there with you! However, one thing I've learned from sandi and others is that this has to be consistent, and over time. WWs can be so manipulative. As I've told other posters here, catching them often just makes them go even more stealth. And they can be very good at lying. Early on in my sitch my wife could lie through her teeth so convincingly. This is a woman that used to be honest to a fault! So I would think, "yeah, there is no way she is this good at lying after being so honest for so long!"
So just be cautious, my friend. Keep doing the work, but be cautious. Another thing I've heard is that the truth always has a way of coming out. So there is no need to snoop and spy, if she isn't genuine eventually it will come out.
Good luck though, your long posts definitely seem to be showing signs of moving in the right direction.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
