Jim, I don’t know what to say. I knew she was going to have relations with you. It’s the one big huge thing you wanted and she needed to get back in. And she had the major ammo she had been withholding.
I truly hope that it was sincere. I hope that this getting caught was some major wake up call for her and she will quit the lying. BecUse she did know what you said you wouldn’t tolerate: and that was contact with OM. And I don’t care if he pursued, she is a grown-ass woman. She knew what she was doing was wrong, she didn’t do it to appease him, she did it for her and thinking she wouldn’t get caught.
But she did. And I will repeat, I hope to god this was the wake up call she needed and there will be no more lying and excuses. That she can’t mess with your trust.
I do wish you the best. Both of you. You are both adults entering a new phase in your lives and I hope it is done with love, honesty, and respect
