That REALLY escalated fast. (Hoosjim's 14th)

[hoosjim]

Ginger, I apologize for being coy... Yes, we ML. I always believed that a gentleman doesn't "kiss and tell.".... So, while I may be no gentleman, I usually dont "tell", either. I understand that it is germane here, however. And it was... participatory. Very participatory. With full giving, and receiving, and telling snd listening and responding for both parties. It sounds trite, but it was definitely not just sex... we ML.

Artista-- Thanks. I will await. Let me see if I can synopsize, as succinctly as possuble, where I am:

I believe. Her, her change, her story. The full substance of it at least. I still have questions... questions that I will have answered. and there are smallet details here and there that are inconsequential enough that I am willing to allow for brain fog or for her to clarify going forward. But... I believe in this. And I have faith. However, I am not so naive and blind and complacent that I don't think we can screw this up by moving too fast,not doing the requisite work, and not establishing a foundation that will underpin the truly strong and lasting relationship we could have if we can properly address and put the past to bed. I still hurt. I still am going to have moments of doubt, and she... is almost like a child... I can't help thinking she still has work to do to before "we" are out of the woods

I just hope that by falling into bed as quickly as we did hasn't set us down a path from which we can't get to where we need to be, if this MR is to truly be what I think it can.