Originally Posted By: Amoafwl
To me, this feels like nothing....for now.

Change is hard, and you are acting differently. My guess is that he doesnt know how to react and things like sulking and anger and coldness come easily for him. Id say keep doing what you are doing. No matter what, I think it is making you into a stronger person.

Yes, they do come easily to him. Right now he has his guard way up and he's not winning any Ms. Congeniality awards any time soon.

Before he asked for a divorce, he told me that I was only hanging on to him because I am too scared of being without him. He can have a very childish view of love and I'm afraid that he does not believe that I love him.

I know that trying to convince him that I do is the last thing that I should be doing. At the same time, I do not want to confirm everything that he has been telling himself.


Me: 28
H: 30
T: 9 M: 7

WAH: First half of 2017. Round 2 started in Spring 2018.

Husband has begun an affair.