O as for reading DR, I have ordered it and am chomping at the bit. I want to start implementing it now but will probably be a bit before it gets to me across the globe. I will just use what I can find here until then.

M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018