Hmm maybe you are right, should I just have let her move to guest room? She offered but I said why not rotate. Ugh, I can see now how that is probably holding too tight. Fact is, I'm more comfortable with not having her move to a separate room permanently, the physical bed comfort isn't a big deal. But I can see now how this is my anxiety talking and needs to be eliminated.
M: 26 W: 26 M: 1.5 T: 3 No kids BD: 31 March 2018
W's affair began: 23 March 2018 Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018 Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018 Ended in-house separation: July 2018