Hmm maybe you are right, should I just have let her move to guest room? She offered but I said why not rotate. Ugh, I can see now how that is probably holding too tight. Fact is, I'm more comfortable with not having her move to a separate room permanently, the physical bed comfort isn't a big deal. But I can see now how this is my anxiety talking and needs to be eliminated.


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018