Acting like I don't see how badly he is behaving and continuing to live my own life also produces nothing but irritation from him.
I wouldnt judge your actions based on his responses right now. YOU are the one that knows what is right, not him at this point.
Originally Posted By: Olya
And this is my problem with the implementation of the LRT. The three outcomes listed are (1) nothing, (2) tepid curiosity, or (3) a spouse that quickly attempts to reconcile. There is no option #4: a sulky juvenile. How do I gage whether what I'm doing is only driving him further away?
To me, this feels like nothing....for now.
Change is hard, and you are acting differently. My guess is that he doesnt know how to react and things like sulking and anger and coldness come easily for him. Id say keep doing what you are doing. No matter what, I think it is making you into a stronger person.
