She is not my possession, I don't own her, I don't control her, she is free to do whatever she wants. I let my W go with love and peace, not in hate, anger or bitterness. We can only control ourselves and can't force anyone back into a MR that they don't want to be in. Turn yourself into a spouse that only a fool would leave but do it for yourself with no expectations. Dbing is for us the LBS, maybe you save your MR maybe you don't but hopefully you save yourself and you just don't survive but you thrive.
You basically summed up what I was trying to say in my thread in this nice paragraph lol. I need to learn how to be brief.
So, now that you have the D date kinda set, any plans for what you might be doing next? Is that online profile going up after that?
