Thank you, Cadet. This might not be the best place to ask this, but I have searched everywhere. it says I have a new message but then when i click it it says "private messages are disabled". My preferences say they are allowed, how do I enable them?


M: 26 W: 26
M: 1.5 T: 3
No kids
BD: 31 March 2018

W's affair began: 23 March 2018
Affair confirmed: 18 April 2018
Confrontation/claims she ended A: 14 May 2018
Ended in-house separation: July 2018