That is wack. Instead of bbq, how about a little ding dong ditch or toilet papering their house? Just kidding. I have no idea what I’d do.
To tell the girls? I guess I would not. And if they find out later that you knew? Just say I didn’t think it was appropriate to share with you at the time. They know you have their best interest at heart and think they would accept that.
And OM2? I guess I’m not surprised. Seems so common around here. Sigh.
As butterfly says, just keep living your awesome life.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving