You are your own worst enemy right now and I always tell people you can’t make things better right now but you can make them worse. Before every move you make you should ask yourself will this make me look strong or make me look weak. Talking about your feelings to her weak”. Give her time and space to figure out what each other’s wants and kicking the $hit out of life “strong”..
We told you a transparency plan was a must and you didn’t listen. My hunch is she went to fair with OM and he won the Bear and they panicked about what if you asked where it came from.