My W went to American Car show with kids and BFF (WW she hangs around a lot with).
She sent me a message asking a practical question, and I replied and asked if they had fun at the exhibition. She replied yes, was nice to see all those old cars and hear that 50´s music (her parents had this 50´s lifestyle when she was a child).
Then she sends me the following message: "But an awkward situation happened: daughter badgered one teddy bear when my ´affair partner´ threw himself into the scene (yes, she put affair partner into quotation marks)... He heard that daughter wanted the toy and paid it to cashier... everything happened so fast and I got frightened that he was suddenly there so that I could not say anything... when daughter asked who that was I lied that he was (BFFs) friend... I really did not know he would come there!! I did not expect that at all!! I´m sorry "
First I was just silent, but when she asked me to comment it, I texted that I felt bad about it and that it was odd co-incidence. She replied that probably she had mentioned about going to that exhibition when they had A, but since she have not had any contact with him since, he should not have known which day/time my W would go there. I said I don´t want to communicate by texting, but since kids were there, she asked if we can have a call tomorrow.
I don´t know what to think... She might tell the truth or not. I have tendency to believe that if she would have wanted to meet him, she might not wanted to do that where my kids are, but rather when is her week alone. But who knows. Yes, it was nice that she pro-actively told me, but even if she really did not expect to see him, would she have mentioned it to me if my daughter wouldn´t have seen him?
Let´s see what she says when I talk with her tomorrow. My first reaction was just that f*ck it, I deserve something better. All the painful memories of A and lying about it came back. I thought that just do what you want, I´m done with this BS. I want a woman who wants to be with me.
Well, I needed to vent a bit here, but I need to admit that I´m frustrated. How have you guys coped with frustration?
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