By all means set your boundaries on what you feel you can and can not deal with... If WAW starts dating then I'm done. Fine.
However, STOP trying to predict how she will feel at X point in time. You have no idea. And, the only person you can control is yourself.
Don't think for a minute that if MC ends that the end of your hopes to repair your relationship. You might be surprised that you have WAY more control your M improving than any MC does.
If I had relied on MC - I would be divorced. Worst experience in my life. We got 20min of her time and she said she didn't want to see us again and that we were a waste of her time.
I am hear to tell you - I saved my marriage.
So start working and keep working on your issues. Continue GAL. Become the H you should have been and then let your W see what she would be missing.
