Can I really do this?

[Dtrmned]

Thank you and I will and have been doing this. Only log on from my phone and work computer and the book is at work as well.

Had a phone call that was supposed to be quick that turned inot an hour talk. My fault, I took the bait. I MUST do better at the letting go, letting her figure her stuff out and only focusing on what is really happening, picking my battles , not assuming or imagining and even when it is obvious to remain in control. This is a marathon that I believe if done correctly we all win in the end!

Got home last night. Kids and I were exhausted. Pleasant enough between my wife and I,but just cordial.

We are supposed to talk finances this week so that will be fun!

Working on myself and concentrating on getting back to who I am. IF she changes and wants to reengage we will approach that subject.

Appreciate the support.