Do more research on “dropping the rope” it’s not something you try out.
I did not find any thread on that, but will look for more info!
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What would be your reason for dropping the rope if things stayed steady through mid summer?
At the moment there are no signs that W would want to continue in relationship with me. Yes, she is committed to MC to find out IF something would start to move inside of her, but I have not yet seen any evidence of that.
I just feel that if there is no progress until summer (if nothing has started to move inside her towards me/us and she just wants out), what more can I do? The past couple of years I have been doing everything to save our marriage and I am emotionally quite worn.
I understand that I just need to continue detaching and healing but I know my wife, and she does not want to live limbo any longer. If she has not find her feelings towards me, she wants to be free to follow her heart, even towards other guys. I don´t think she necessary would do that, but I don´t think she could commit to be faithful to me either. And if she cannot commit to that, what else could I do than "drop a rope" and continue forward in my end? If my wife opens the possibility for her to date others, shouldn´t I just admit that "that´s it"?
And if in some later stage in life if she and I happen to be available and having feelings towards each other - who knows what happens...
