When your W is ready she will bring up the R or M talk. You keep moving forward.

If things don't change by mid summer you will drop the rope, why?

What would be your reason for dropping the rope if things stayed steady through mid summer? Patience is the key. IMO you should reevaluate mid summer if things don't change but not drop the rope.

It's great to have a plan. IMO, take it a day at a time. Live today, don't worry about tomorrow and let the past rest.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.