H left for the weekend that time and was a mess of anxiety for a while. A few weeks later, he told me he was getting a L and starting the separation process. I acknowledged him and went back to my book. He asked me didn't I have anything to say and I just said, "You don't treat me well. If you're going to move out, go already. Don't expect me to argue with you to keep you here so you can treat me poorly. But, if you yell at me again, I will ask you to leave and you will go."
That was maybe 3 weeks ago and I haven't heard a peep.
I'm tired.
BD#1: "marriage is over" 9/14/2016 H in basement 24/7 with EX/OM BD#2: 3/20/2017 I plan to move out "soon" I LRT me: 42, H, 41, EX/OM, 37 D 10, Son 7 M to H = 20 years EX/OM moved in 10 years ago
