My W had a "boyfriend" for five months that she picked up on a site and he pulled out because she couldn't commit to the R.
Dating is not as easy as it seems, yes you can have quick distractions, but to find some lasting is very very difficult.
Even if there is a thing going on, it's quite likely to go bust.
Truthbuster.
Married 4.5, Together 6 M: 36, W: 33, no kids Separation date: 7/8/2017 Bomb dropped: 8/18/2017 Last communication: 1/8/2018 - now nothing OM confirmed - now ended (?)