Thanks for the responses and these make perfect sense and are in line with my thinking. She's resting while I'm taking care of the kids. I'm making the soup. I have to cook for us anyways, and our son is a bit under the weather as well, so it's not like I'm just making it for her.
Good. I'm sure she will appreciate it, don't expect it to change anything but in this case it was the right thing to do and above all you should always conduct yourself with dignity and honor so, perfect
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Distance/pursuit is really the only major thing I did to get in this situation, so I'm a bit paranoid about pressuring/pursuing her. Especially when it's something I would have done before BD. It's amazing how your confidence is just destroyed by something like this.
Yeah BD makes us all question everything we do. Hey, that's what we're here for! We've all walked a mile (or 10) in your shoes and came out the other side, so who better to ask Just remember that no one particular thing got you here and no one particular thing will make or break it now either. It's a long haul, just settle in and take a deep breath and keep your hope and faith!
Just remember that no one particular thing got you here and no one particular thing will make or break it now either. It's a long haul, just settle in and take a deep breath and keep your hope and faith!