However, the main problem that I’m having now is I know she was actively searching on a few online dating sites during our several apart apart. I truly believe she was dating during this time as I saw her profile on a local dating site.
First of all, I think you have to decide if that ^^^^^^^^^ is a deal breaker.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
