No more denial, time to get to work

[MRay]

Thanks for the responses and these make perfect sense and are in line with my thinking. She's resting while I'm taking care of the kids. I'm making the soup. I have to cook for us anyways, and our son is a bit under the weather as well, so it's not like I'm just making it for her.

Distance/pursuit is really the only major thing I did to get in this situation, so I'm a bit paranoid about pressuring/pursuing her. Especially when it's something I would have done before BD. It's amazing how your confidence is just destroyed by something like this.