Thanks guys. Hearing how "typical" a lot of what I'm experiencing is is very comforting, even though it sounds like I'm in for a pretty long road.

The irony is that she claims she doesn't trust me to be there for her, but from an outside perspective, she's still reaching out to me for support when she's upset.

I've gotten a few random messages from her (almost like things are normal) today. I think because she's upset and looking for a little stability.


Me, H-39, W-33
T11, M3
No children
Bomb 10/17 - "Not sure what she wants"
Bomb 2 12/17 - forced convo it did not go well.
W moved out 3/18
OM Confirmed 4/1
D Final 9/27/18