Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[SteveLW]

Thanks man, and thanks for the quick responses.

I'm doing better than I expected to with this, but it's one of the hardest things I've ever done.

I just noticed that she changed her name from her hyphenated name back to her maiden name on Facebook, and for some reason that hit me really hard.

I'd ignore it. Likely did it so you'd see. I'd suspend your FB account for the time being. Otherwise you'll be obsessive about her FB activity. Imagine if you didn't even know about this mane change? Then it couldn't hit you at all!