This stuff makes you question everything. I've gone through the same thing. My advice: take care of the kids, and tell her to let you know if she needs or wants anything.
That way you're not pressuring her (making her soup whether she wants it or not), but she knows you'll provide if she wants it.
My wife hates when i presume she wants something, but likes to know I'll be there if she does want something.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
