She told me she needed to know if she had to find someone to watch the girls. I said "I will watch them" and left it at that. I see why GAL is so important, it'll get this sitch off my mind but until then I'm struggling.
and from here on out, you do need to start having plans to do things--FOR YOURSELF... WITHOUT your girls... so next time your W asks if you have plans for Friday, you can truthfully say, "yes."... because you are out there GETTING A LIFE!