Like I said, passive/aggressive. Sounds like he may have a serious case of NGS. Does he put on a friendly face, make friends easily, then throw all these barbs at you in private? Complain about all things great and small? Complain about what you're wearing, how dirty the house is, how you take care of the kids? Nice guy indeed.
This is H. We could be alone one minute, him mad as all he*$ at me (or whatever), then be in public the next with the most friendly face you'd never know it. He makes friends very easy, can be very charming to everyone. He is a GREAT complainer (if there really is such a thing). Complains about everything.
Originally Posted By: AnotherStander
Originally Posted By: meg24
I have a very difficult time standing up to H. He has this way of just looking at me, or using a tone of voice, that makes me feel like what I'm saying or doing is completely wrong.
WOW, yeah that is right out of the NGS book. He's controlling and manipulating you!
I've never seen H as controlling, but very manipulative. Very manipulative. I overlooked it though. That is something I need to work on, not overlooking those character "flaws".
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
