lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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Steve85, No she has not been this way I believe it is the OM who is telling her to do some of this.

Anotherstander, I don't blame her for everything, I tend to be the NG and take blame for everything. If I were to do as you say I don't think I could hold it together. I get what you are saying but I just don't know what I should have done.

Sandi2, I stuck around for the start of the process but then left after I was sure that she was not trying to take things that weren't suppose to go with her. I did some mortgage stuff and then visited with some friend with drinks and dinner before heading home.

We were waiting for our taxes to be completed and had to meet for that. before we did that her first text to me was what her new address was. I just don't get how she is thinking or reacting now. she is definitely not the girl I married some 13+ years ago.