he is so selfish, but you allow him to be... you will not get passed this weakness of yours--being a pushover when it comes to your husband--until you stop his cake-eating on a consistent basis... you have to take the opportunities that come up and meet them head on... this was a perfect opportunity and you dismissed it...
Oh Meg. I agree with Artista.
I’m trying to learn to recognize manipulation. One from a couple of days included, “everything is always my fault” and “I don’t care to even live.” Me to myself, well it is, like 90%. Me to h, well I’m sorry to hear about that feeling. So I acknowledge his feelings but then told him not my problem he can't see the forest for all the trees.
Of course he cursed me in the next text and I did not respond.
Well h is still here and came and helped son do something at our home today. He got validation for that but not when he is being manipulative. Some of it is still hard to spot and challenge.
Listen to your support and when you fall get back up.
Me-45,H-56 DD: 18 DS: 15 M:18 T:23 H moved out:11/2017
