i do remember that a couple of weeks after my husband and i separated for good (where i finally moved in with my parents) i sent him an email... i was so broken... sad... i missed him and our family... the four of us being together... i said again that i did not want a divorce... that i only wanted him...
the positive that you and your wife have going here that my husband and i did not is that you are already in counseling... you are both already working with an IC... i hope this contributes to a cleaner salvage of your marriage than what my husband and i experienced... only time is going to tell...
