Absolutely nothing other than the desire to feel in control of my life and find peace with myself.
Good game plan
Originally Posted By: Steve85
12/23 will never be the same for me. I unfortunately have a very good, vivid memory. It is a curse. And every 12/23 I will remember BD for the rest of my life no matter what happens (if we stay together or split up).
Well Cnut beat me to it, but never say never My BD was on my birthday. Sure it was a nasty memory the first couple of years, but after that I didn't even give it a second thought. Also I NEVER EVER forgot our anniversary when I was married, but last year would have been our 25th anniversary and I completely forgot about it. Why? Because frankly that date doesn't mean a thing to me anymore.
