Jim, what I am trying to say is something doesn't add up here and IMO there are going to be many more shoes to drop.
Yeah, alot doesn't add up. Funny that you use the "dropping shoes" cliche-- my buddy (W's bff's XH) was just talking to me two days ago about the "closet full of shoes" that kept dropping out, one at a time with his toxic WW.
I mean... i think she is turning the corner, but i also think she is not completely levelling with me. Whatever. The counselor is basically saying now that she "has her right where she wants her". Not those exact words of course, but saying she's been waiting for her to get to this point for months now... and now she can finally make some progress, if she's willing.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3