lost and desperate think she has closed Part 2

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Well tomorrow is the big day she is moving out. She had her mother and sister over to help pack. Her oldest sister can't understand why it has to be like this and really didn't help except to clean and that caused my W to cry to her mother. She is emotionally a wreck right now and I have resisted showing her any sympathy.
I began checking on refinancing the house, but most will not do anything until the divorce is final. Just another thing for the W to get upset about. she wants a value for the buyout to put in the agreement. Trying to handle this like a business deal, calm cool no emotion. I will still be dealing with her for awhile. Am trying to stay NC and let her contact me.