I ask myself that question all the time? Am I just letting her off easy with no consequences? But I thought I was not the one to give consequences? Should she have to earn her way back? What does that even mean?
G,
First off all choices have consequences good or bad.
What I mean is if there is no remorse, no apology, no hard work nothing will change. This will not happen until she fears she might lose you or she misses you.
You are in soul suching limbo again, and I know first hand that is the worst place in the world to be.
I have always believed you had a good chance at recon if you could ever get to a place where you let her go.
