Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts

[reframe]

Things are escalating quickly.
The wife came home last night (after the convo above) and announced that she'd found a room to rent and would likely be moving out this weekend.

I initially handled it pretty well (detached acceptance) but she keep pressing for me to talk more. It predictably became a full on R-talk, that I engaged in logically. And we know how well that works....

It looks like this is happening. I'm feeling pretty shattered right now, only got around 3 hours of sleep and can barely function.

I also can't believe who this woman has become. The fact that she was willing to move without the dogs shocks me.