Hi Sjohns6 .... I think the best thing I can offer is to re-read Cali's thread. Not that your wife is going to do what Cali's did - just that you need to be prepared for absolutely anything, and Cali I think is a great example of how to navigate these rocky shoals.

I'm delighted that you're posting, btw!!!

I'm glad your wife initiated that convo with you.

Try to have a wonderful Easter! xoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver