H sent reply late last night. His words - "it"s not about sex, it's about spending time with you. I really feel like I need to be around you and the kids right now. Just feeling depressed."

I have replied yet.

H has always been a master manipulator, even before BD. So I know there's something other than just needing to spend time with us.

Me-44,H-44
S21,S19,S17,D13
M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M)
BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head)
H moved out:3-4-18