So while 5 days of no contact with OM may be reason to celebrate, it is in no way indicative of long term no contact. WW are addicts. They are addicted to the OM, the feelings he causes, and the excitement that EAs and PAs bring. She is scared right now of losing what she has. But as a WW she is only trying to figure out how to get you back, but also keep her options open. There is no way she is over OM this soon, and I know that hurts to hear.
Nope, absolutely not. You are correct. That is for her to figure out. Presumably in IC but that is her affair, for now.
Did the bug help? Yes. Yes it did. Absolutely. Her state of mind and whether or not she might be turning is crucial, absolutely crucial. I do not know if, under any set of circumstances or actions on her part i ever could have trusted her again. This opens that door a crack. Not for her to enter now, but for me to potentially open the door wider depending on what she does going forward.
H53/W51, R-ing 4/'18
"Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires"-Sg.of Sg 2:7
"So oftentimes it happens,that we live our lives in chains, & we never even know we have the key"-Eagles III 1:3
