That REALLY escalated fast. (Hoosjim's 14th)

[hoosjim]

Hey kitKat, welcome, and thank you for chiming in. I wish you had had a chance to read all my threads, including my previous one which included my manifesto on "me".

I am not spinning out of control. Far from it.

As for the recording. Someone here, i think actually Sandi, had suggested it would not be out of line. FWIW I am not constantly monitoring her. In fact, had done nothing of the sort for months.

The "consensus" here (and, in fact, even from my MC/IC believe it or not), is that a little "research" here and there is entirely justified in such circumstances (cheating spouse), as long as it doesn't become constant/obsessive-- which it isn't in this case.

This was what in the foreign policy realm would be called a "fulcrum moment". Alot of unknowns. Alot of really, really critical unknowns, and with the future path of this whole thing, perhaps forever, hanging in the balance. I had no qualms about gathering that intel. And the device is already removed. I know all that i need to know.