That REALLY escalated fast. (Hoosjim's 14th)

[Coconut]

I think that the comparison of these being a reverse BD is genius,and reading her reactions, thoughts, etc. really resonate with my reactions after BD. I really hope you are really listening to DonH, because I think he's spot on. Being in the LBS fog is not a place where you can really figure out how you feel, she's in survival mode and reuniting would bring her back to "normal" without having to work on her issues.

I haven't heard anything about your request that she move out, has anything been said about that?